Hunan: A woman was beaten up by her fiancé when she bought fried noodles and asked to return the 130,000 dowry gift. Netizens: Want to refund
It is said that marriage is a woman's second reincarnation, which is true. If you vote well and find a gentle and considerate husband, you will live happily ever after, and life will be sweeter than honey.
But once you meet someone who is not good, or someone who looks like a beast, not only is happiness impossible to talk about, but you may even be attacked by the other party's verbal violence, which will hurt your body and mind.
Ms. Teng from Hunan had bad luck. She met a man who hurt her. Just because she went to buy a bowl of fried rice noodles, her fiancé beat her up and asked her to return the 130,000 dowry. But netizens said that the bride price should be refunded.
Domestic violence is a problem that plagues women. Some men who are dominated by violent genes do not know how to solve problems peacefully when encountering conflicts. They often resort to violence, which brings great harm to women.
Recently, a video circulated on the Internet. A woman was brutally beaten by her fiancé in the street just because she wanted to buy a trivial bowl of rice noodles. The scene was brutal and chaotic, which was shocking.
In the video, the man pressed the woman under him and waved his fists again and again. The woman twisted her limbs and struggled back and forth, but she still couldn't get rid of the man's clutches.
The man hit and beat, got up and pulled the woman's body, and dragged her along the road for several meters. The woman was helpless and could only be manipulated by him. When she got to the side of the road, she was beaten again.
A helpless and weak girl was beaten violently by an adult man in the street. Anyone who saw it would feel worried.
After an unknown amount of time, three passers-by came from a distance. Seeing this scene, the three passers-by were also stunned, and hurried over to dissuade the beating man, and the woman was saved.
Afterwards, I found out that this beating video circulated was already in October last year, and the man's reason for beating was just a bowl of unremarkable rice noodles.
The beating man and the woman were in a relationship. The two were engaged, but they hadn't received a certificate yet. In order to get married, the man gave 130,000 yuan in bride price.
The two went to a meeting at a friend's place that day. On the way back, the woman asked to buy a bowl of fried noodles. Unexpectedly, this sentence aroused great dissatisfaction from the man.
The man first complained that the woman's dinner was not good, but now he went to eat supper, and then said that he had no money, and then had a quarrel with the woman.
With the help of passers-by, the woman was rescued and escaped and chose to call the police. After identification, the woman was slightly injured. Finally, under the coordination of relevant departments, the man compensated 10,000 yuan for medical expenses.
After this incident, the marriage of the two fell through completely, but the man proposed that the woman should return the 130,000 dowry money, and said that if he did not refund, he would go to court to sue the woman.
According to ordinary people's thinking, women are so violently beaten by men, and the dowry money must never be given to him. If it is given to her, wouldn't it be a beating for nothing? However, the views of netizens are more interesting, and everyone supports the return of the dowry.
Let me talk about beating people first, which is undoubtedly wrong. Whether it is a couple or a husband and wife, it is common to encounter conflicts, and the solution should be based on peaceful negotiation.
Whenever there is a conflict, you can use your fists to solve the problem. This is personal injury. Chinese laws fully protect the rights and interests of women. Whether it is based on the Marriage Law or the Anti-Domestic Violence Law, domestic violence will be punished by law.
Even if two people are not married, a man is suspected of violating the law by injuring another with violence. Couples should care for each other. Fighting is obviously not the way for couples to get along.
From this point of view, the woman is really right to propose a breakup. As for the refund of the bride price, judging from the feedback of most netizens, it is generally agreed to return the bride price.
In fact, this is more in line with our general customs. After all, in the real society, the bride price is a gift money given to a marriage. Since two people had conflicts and broke up, and the marriage was not consummated, it is reasonable to return the bride price.
Another reason why netizens support the return of the bride price is that this violent man is obviously a scumbag. Since he is a scumbag, it is best to draw a clear line with him.
Since the betrothal gift is a dispute between two people, it is undoubtedly the best choice to return the betrothal gift and get rid of this man completely. Otherwise, if the betrothal gift is not returned, the two will be entangled again.
Marriage is a woman's second reincarnation. Whether she can have a good reincarnation is really a technical task. Female friends must keep their eyes open, and never meet a scumbag who beats someone just for a bowl of fried noodles.